Life would be way nicer with more “real women” and less women who cause drama get over yourself ladies… I have a family to spend my precious time with than to accommodate your foolishness.
After i had kids alot of my chilish ways seemed to instantly disappear i know that seems strange but it did like magic.
One thing that i have really been wondering lately is why women care so much about other women? What they look like, How they do their job, How they raise their kids, How big is their house and bank account, Everything right down to how much sex other women get !!!
I honestly dont care and no longer have these thoughts or compare myself to other women but me looking out at others alot still do !
But what really pushed me over the edge was i was in TjMaxx last Friday and there was a woman alone in the store in all black and high heels shopping and a spanish family im gussing mom dad and 3 kids plus 2 grandkids one which had down syndrome. And the lady in black was yelling i mean causing a fuss and rukus fussing at this spanish girl cause the girl was eating mcdonalds french frys in the store and the lady went on and on and on about how gross, and she was teaching her kids bad habits and etc…
I WANTED TO SAY ARE YOU KIDDING ME !!!! You dont even know this family you have no idea what they go through that may have been the 1st time she had a chance to eat that day maybe the whole family shares a car. Was it really worth ruining their afternoon outing and maybe even getting the boy with down syndrome upset ?
I really really was hoping this woman in heels would break a dang heel and just shut up !!
Now moving along to the women that think they are amazing and can do no wrong and are everyones gift ! Yes its good to be confident and so on but if you put people down in the process their is no way they can be happy on the inside. No one especially me loves a known it all and someone that is living off mama and daddys momey at 40 and think they have it all together but are so quick to judge the next female is ludicrous.
Now in my thinking more power to you for being able to live off daddys money, or if you have no compassion and can judge people in TjMaxx and so on but im a mother and cant live that way.
No one is perfect everyone is flawed and fighting their on battle so as women why are we stoning other women just because we think we are better !
If you are a strong woman you will be found with a open mind and building other women up.
If your so unhappy with yourself you have to make other women look bad then Its time to dig deeper and get happy with youself cause a bitter, sneeky & rude woman looks good on no one !!
When i was in high school the things i listed above is what i thought mattered but now it seems so mean and tiring and down right annoying to be so worried about other women.
I just read a article on insurity and my mouth hung wide open the whole time how the fowlling statements were so accurate with people i know ! Wow !!
Some insecre people just cant deal with silence. They fill every void with chatter. The consequence is the annoyance of everyone around them.
Extream insecurity is usually marked by an obsession with gaining the approval of everyone.
Insecure people feel threatened by others, and one way they cope with this is to and try and squash them. The most threatening person of all to an insecure person is a secure person. They can sense their power.
Insecure people talk about themselves constantly. Self-promotion is paramount to over-compensation for doubt.
Okay so after i read the article i actually feel sorry for these people how misrable !!
So im hoping more women get on a journey to finding happiness within their mind and not worrying about what the one next to them is doing.
I will raise my daughter to be her on person and to fight her on way and not bring down other women in her work place and in life.
Please share your stories with me.
LC
XOXO
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I just love that quote you shared – that’s definitely something I’m teaching my children. Your post reminded me of that quote about being kind because everyone is fighting a hard battle.
There are definitely some nasty people out there. It spreads like the plague, but remember that kindness spreads too. 🙂 That’s what I always try to do–spread happiness and kindness.
How sad that the woman in black heels thought she should even say anything. You truly never now what’s going on with other people.
That’s what I try to remember I’m nice even to dude ppl maybe it will stick
I think it’s so important for women to empower other females around them. People spend way too much time putting others down…
Great post!
I love this! Since having children I do look at the world in a better light, more compassion and with a view that the world doesn’t revolve around me!! But there is nothing worse than women putting down women, like life isn’t tough enough, and I think you’re right it’s about insecurity. It’s a tough one to crack but I think if we teach our girl -and boys!- early on to respect themselves, others, be compassionate and thoughtful and be happy in themselves it all goes towards them developing into rounded individuals who don’t judge and just as importantly can stand up for themselves.
Thnx for the post
@mummyshire
There’s a lot of cruel people out there, it’s so sad. I get judged just as much as the next guy or gal, it stung in High School and it still does in the adult world. You’d think people would grow up after High School, nope, the vicious cycle just continues.